Caroline Flack’s tragic death was less than a couple of weeks ago, but it feels like the news cycle has already moved on as people are more concerned with Deontay Wilder/Tyson Fury and the Coronavirus outbreak, but for the people that were actually friends with her the grieving process is set to take a lot longer.
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Ex- rugby player Danny Cipriani is one of these, who has taken the unusual decision to share his last WhatsApp messages with Caroline and post them on Instagram account to help his own personal proceedings with dealing with her death. When you read his accompanying message, it does actually kinda make sense to be fair to the guy:
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Black dot. Before i start. This is my grieving process. Which is talking. A lot. Which my friends and family and teammates have had to take this last 10 days because I’m grieving. And I’m grieving hard. Hence I’m talking a lot. I’m not sure I’d be strong enough if I didn’t understand or see myself in her. Pain is pain. It doesn’t matter if you’ve lost a cat. Or been called a name. No ones pain is worse or less. Because it is individual to them and how they take it. So… Black dot. If you judge the first pic you see a black dot. But i didn’t really know what she meant when she called me black dot. Until her best friend told me on Sunday last week. ‘She used to call you black dot, now i know, your WhatsApp pic is a black dot’ – so i changed my WhatsApp pic to a black dot about 5 months ago because i felt there were people who had my number who i couldn’t trust. Ultimately i would have let them into my life. So ultimately i would have to ask myself why. Anyway. This story is about the beauty she found in a situation i found uncomfortable. ‘I’m just talking to black dot’ she would say. She was kind beyond belief. And she would think i am crazy doing all this. But i know she would be proud. I’m taking lent off social media. Thank you all for the kind messages. And all the lovely response. Thank you for the bad response. It’s my story. And i did it for me. Then her – she wasn’t allowed to talk to her BF throughout the case because of the law. He wanted the charges dropped. They wanted to pursue. I am not pointing fingers. The CPS and police do a good job. Just saying we can’t always do a good job. This is my grieving process. Our greatest strength is our greatest weakness ❤️ ps – I was shown how to disable comments. So I’m going to do so on this post. Because it’s for me and my grieving process. But in a month i will be back on social because that’s 2020 and this is me navigating my way through life
I mean I can’t really say anything about that. Everyone grieves in their own way and hopefully that will help him somehow. RIP Caroline Flack.
For more of the same, check out her boyfriend sharing the tiny head wound that led the CPS to prosecute her. Geez.