A Man Has Been Fired For Bombarding A Woman With Abusive Tinder Voice Notes

Serves him right.

Everyone knows that there are a few bad eggs on dating apps that don’t take kindly to women rejecting them or taking too long to reply, but there’s really no excuse for the behaviour that’s exhibited in this article.

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Ebonie Sanderson was talking to a guy on the dating platform and when she declined to meet up with him, he sent her a long abusive voice note calling her a fat disgusting pig. She posted this on her Instagram account and for once it actually worked out, as she received a message a couple of days later from the CEO of his company telling her that he had fired him.

You can hear the awful messages below and it also turns out that this Tom character does this kind of thing to women all the time and is a really bad apple:


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⚠️ WARNING: CYBER BULLYING, HARASSMENT, SEXISM, FATPHOBIA AND MISOGYNISTIC BEHAVIOUR ALERT!!! ***UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE 1. An email from Tom’s CEO has been received confirming that he has been fired, effective immediately. The CEO did the right thing and acted quickly, so I kindly ask you to stop emailing them. ***2. WARNING there are now well over 20 women that have come forward and shared their similar experience/encounters of abuse and harassment from Tom. My dm’s are a safe place if this is also you. This is what happens when you say NO or call out a man for being disrespectful!!! You apparently earn yourself the right to get verbally abused and fat shamed on more than one platform. No I didn’t “ask for it” and yes, I’m entitled to change my mind and tell someone I’m not interested anymore because I feel uncomfortable and intimidated by ones aggressive and forceful nature. The worst part about this attack, is the fact that I felt the need to be nice when turning him down, telling him he’s good looking and will find someone else for the night and then apologising for feeling uncomfortable!!!! THAT IS A BIG PROBLEM If anyone comes across this man on dating apps or social media, please report him. I managed to video call and he answered and appeared to in fact be this very man in the picture… “Tom”. All I can say is what a privileged misogynistic PIG. I will never change my weight for anyone else but MYSELF!!!

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Damn talk about ruthless behaviour from that woman, but people like that really do need to be called out and held accountable for their actions. Seems like Tom’s life is pretty much ruined at the moment, but you can’t say that he didn’t deserve it for acting like that in the first place. Prick.

For more of the same, check out the Best & Worst Conversations in Tinder. So much crap on there.


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