A 21-year-old girl in New York who documents her first dates online has revealed that the bar has been set by some guy who took her on an expensive shopping spree at Hermes followed by an expensive dinner date at Michelin-starred ‘Daniel’. Is this really what a first date is in 2024?

Guys out here doing all this for ran thru puss

Hoeflation is getting out of control pic.twitter.com/A72kVITxsH

— J⚡️ (@jmbynx) February 19, 2024

Whatever happened to just going for a coffee or a lovely stroll through a museum? Meeting at Hermes for a first date? Sounds more like a sugar daddy with a wife and kids at home who’s at least 20 years older than this chick, rather than a “real man” setting the standard for first dates going forward.

Can’t help but wonder whether this video is technically an advert for her services as a high end escort. The luxury gifts, the age gap, the communicating through Instagram DMs. That’s how a lot of high end escorting goes down these days. Still, way to spread unrealistic dating expectations for everyone else in their 20s (and beyond) out there.

P.S. Love the “and then we weren’t our separate ways” line at the end of the clip. I think that’s what we call an “unreliable narrator”.

For the girl who went on a first date with a masculine man and claims it erased all her “woke” programming, click HERE.